U left relationship and started hookup because u had numerous failed relationships that men broke ur heart into tiny pieces after being faithful and committed to them..
You now made up your mind to market yourself to the street and get paid than to be giving it freely to a man that will still break ur heart and not value u.
Now that you have started doing hookup, Is it not still the men that you have given up on you are still following?..
Just say it's longer throat (kwodoyi) that is worrying you not that u don't do love again. Be contented with what ur parent or any family members offers you or rather have a handwork that can earn u.
Don't be unwise!!
Because u have failed relationships,that doesn't warrant u to go into hookups. Being single is not a sin, be single and work more on yourself with ur dignity intact and clean.
I can't just match up " I don't do love anymore, because men are scum" with " na man I wan dey follow weh go give me money with no heartbreak".. I just can't find sense in those statements.
So u can't stay holy for yourself because men broke ur heart??
U prefer to have countless body counts because of money??
U might have slept with the men that broke ur heart but still, being a celibate while u wait for the right man will be of great hygiene to ur health and to ur spiritual life.
Don't follow the crowd.
Follow what the Bible/Quran says.
Believe you me, u will enjoy ur relationship that will give u a happy home when the time comes.
